When do they grow up

I love my kids and grandkids. But, sometimes I must take exception to what they do. I dont feel it is wise for grown, married with kids,children to move back home.They need to learn to fend for themselves. Moving back home to save money just proves that you are not mature enough to handle life.Before you decide to do something consider all the options. Dont put extra pressure and stress on parents who have finished raising kids.I think if I have to have 24/7 care when I am older, I should die. I dont want to put an extra burden on my family.