Death is something we all must face. Why do some families have to tear each other apart. Losing a loved one is never easy, but there comes a time when a family must put aside their differences and allow the grief process to begin. It makes no sense to bar a parent from the deathbed or does it make sense to fight over the obvious. I hope that when I die my family will not fight over me. In the long run it serves no one well to allow bickering between people who profess love for an individual. One must cherise a loved one and not fight over who will and wont be allowed to visit a dying person.